How can you keep desire for love and sexual pleasure.. Judges16

Samson was deceived because he wanted to believe Delilah's lies. Although he could strangle a lion, he could not smother his burning lust and see Delilah for who she really was.

How can you keep your desire for love and sexual pleasure from deceiving you? 

1) you must decide what kind of a person you will love before passion takes over. Determine whether a person's character and faith in God are as desirable as his or her physical appearance.

2) because most of the time you spend with your spouse will not involve sex, your companion's personality, temperament, and commitment to solve problems must be as gratifying as his or her kisses.

3) be patient, time and observation often reveal what is beneath the pleasant appearance and attentive touch.